In my 20’s I decided that just experiencing the dreams was not enough, and I wanted to become more active in my dreams. So, one of the things I did was to keep a journal, not only of dreams, but things in the awake time that could be associated with dreamtime. This is something I suggest that anyone who is looking to expand on their dreaming experience do as often as possible. Something you write today may not make sense when you write it, but maybe in a week, month or year, you will have an ah-ha moment and be grateful you have the documentation of your minds adventures.
Nothing can be more embarrassing for the female partner than to realize you two are dressed for different occasions. Women can easily tell if the guy put serious thought in his appearance or not. A good outfit means cleaned, washed, ironed, wrinkle-free clothes, matched with a good tie and dark colored socks. Check yourself in the mirror and watch carefully for tags, holes or anything else. If you wear something new, check the clothes for tags or other flaws. It is important to have a neat appearance so that you can both feel comfortable with each other.
Of course, when you go outside, you may encounter areas that are already infested with fleas, ticks and other pests. If your dog becomes plagued by fleas or ticks, wash your pet with a natural shampoo or natural dish soap to kill any fleas or ticks on the body. You can then spray your pets down with a natural, topical spray made from buy essential oils in bulk.
Be a gentleman and offer to pick her up. If she refuses and would rather meet you instead, respect her privacy. Don’t take it personally! Be courteous by being on time. Bring her a small gift – seasonal flowers are nice, or some fancy candy. If you pick her up, don’t smoke before you get to her place. She’ll think she stepped foot into a freight train instead of a romantic chariot to whisk her away.
If you liked spending time with her, tell this straightforward and without hesitation. Honesty is a very precious asset and she will admire you for the courage. Exchange numbers and call her in a day or two, if you are supposed to make the first call. It is ok to call her, as long as you don’t overreact and leave her insistent messages and voicemails by the next morning.
Round out your healing regime. Herbs work better in combination rather than a taking single herbs – this is called synergy. If you are taking single preparations, you may want to try to combine some others for the desired synergistic effect. For example, combine one to detoxify, one for inflammation, one for energy, one for tissue repair, etc. Or, purchase a combination preparation.
Jojoba, henna, and rosemary oil are perhaps your top three. You can find these oils in most local herb shops, but if you have no success there try looking online. Mixing each of these three oils together, apply a teaspoonful to thinning portions of the scalp.
And what about the first kiss? Generally, a hug and a quick kiss on the cheek is a nice way to end an evening that went well. It’s not too forward, so long as she appears comfortable. If you didn’t feel the chemistry, that’s fine. Don’t make any promises – and you must resist the temptation to tell her that you will call her, when your gut dreads it. You want her to remember you as a masculine man and a gentleman, not a wimpy lying dirt-bag. Simply thank her for a nice evening and say goodnight.